Family

More than a century after people started lying on Freud’s couch, are people any happier?  Are families any more functional? Nothing that follows is intended as psychological treatment, which of course should be sought by those requiring it. But for the rest of us, what if there were practical tools for dealing with families that […]

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Law of Attraction and Relationships

The popular law of attraction is just one of the many sacred cows that Gary Douglas dissects in his recent book, Divorceless Relationships. If applying the law of attraction to get what you want isn’t working for you, you might want to consider taking a different point of view. It’s your points of view that […]

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Eight Week Relationship

Are you still looking for “the one” that you can settle down and live happily ever after with?  Is marriage or a non-formalized equivalent thereof part of that plan?  It might not be your best choice, says Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness™ and best selling author.  His latest book is Divorceless Relationship, which debunks […]

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If The Keys to Making Your Life Work Were Available, Would You Use Them?

If there were a set of simple guidelines that could change your life and enable you to have everything you’ve always asked for if you followed them, would you? Gary Douglas, best-selling author and founder of Access Consciousness has developed just this and jokingly calls them the “Ten Commandments” of Access. Access is a pragmatic […]

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What it beyond Goals, Intentions, and Affirmations?

If there were a much easier way to create your ideal life without having to set goals, intentions, making a “vision board” or reciting endless affirmations, would you be interested? If it were as easy and light to create your life as a puff of air, a flower petal drifting in the breeze, or a […]

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When Was The Last Time You Experienced True Relaxation In Your Body?

When Was The Last Time You Experienced True Relaxation In Your Body? “As I fell from the top of the mountain, I tried to slow myself down, jabbing with my feet and my hands. It didn’t work. I went over a 100-foot drop, and I was free-falling and gaining speed all over again. What ensued […]

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What If The Sex Roles We Were Ruled By Were A Lie All Along?

Have you been fighting against stereotypical sex roles all your life? The one with the housewife who stays at home with the children and the father who, as the breadwinner of the family, goes out to conquer the world? In these stories women are the natural nurturers and caretakers, while men get to go out […]

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What if Sex Didn’t Mean Anything More than a Game of Frisbee?

What if sex didn’t mean anything? How could the subject that sets people a twittering and guffawing faster than any other not mean anything? It all depends on what you mean by meaning, according to Gary Douglas, best selling author and founder of Access Consciousness. “Whenever something means something to us,” he observes, “we give […]

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How Many Words Do We Need for Sex?

The way we speak and think about things determines the reality we create, so it behooves us to choose our words with total awareness if we wish to see what we’d really like showing up. Nowhere is this more apparent than on the subject of sex, starting with the very word “sex.” Gary Douglas, founder […]

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