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Gratitude Or Love?

June 3, 2014 Happiness

Have you ever “fallen in love”?  Have you ever just “known” that  THIS was the right person for you – your soul mate, your twin flame, the one you were destined to be with in bliss forever? Did you see them across a crowded room and approach them with the confidence that your dreams would [...]

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Creating A Great Relationship – The Choice Is Yours

May 28, 2014 Gary M. Douglas

In order to have a great relationship, it must be something that you’re choosing, not something that you have decided that you have to have.  Gary Douglas says: “ It’s all about choice, get clear on if you really want a relationship, and if so, what works for you and what works for the other [...]

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Survey Confirms Men Are Always Wrong

October 16, 2013 Access Consciousness

but Access Consciousness® Has a Way to Change That! (and Other Aspects of Relationships) One of the consequences of the women’s movement is that it’s destroyed most of the roles men knew they could count on in their lives, Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness® has observed.  The definitions and expectations of men are so [...]

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If You Changed Your Relationship Shopping List, Might You Find What You’ve Been Looking for?

September 30, 2013 Access Consciousness

What kind of a relationship are you looking for?  Have you actually thought about it, or are you assuming that when it does turn up it will morph magically into exactly what you desire, without your ever having to think about it? You might want to think again. One of the biggest traps people seeking [...]

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Are the Pez Juniors Going to Get You?

September 13, 2013 Access Consciousness

If you’ve got an area of your life that you just can’t get to work for you, there’s a good chance you’ve got a Pez Junior or two lurking around in that area. What’s a Pez Junior?   No, it’s not a little rectangular piece of candy that pops out of a plastic cartoon character’s mouth [...]

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What Do The 5 Elements of Intimacy Really Mean?

September 12, 2013 Access Consciousness

It’s one thing to nod your head when Gary Douglas and Dr Dain Heer talk about the 5 elements of intimacy.  It’s quite another to live them. As a reminder, they are honor, trust, allowance, vulnerability, and gratitude. As I travel the world sharing the Access Consciousness® tools with people relative to relationships, I have [...]

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Can Love at First Sight Last?

August 29, 2013 Access Consciousness

“I saw him across a crowded room and I knew he was the one!” “As soon as I saw her, I knew I had to have her!” Love at first sight is one of our most cherished myths, but can it actually occur? And more important to most people, can it last? Gary Douglas, founder [...]

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August 16, 2013 Access Consciousness

By Katarina Wallentin When I started Access, my main issue was really how to BE. And I mean with everything and everyone. I was so darn accomplished and likable and good at everything. And yet I was utterly confused about who I was. When I was a kid, I was…different. I was told I was [...]

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Are Relationships Puzzling You?

August 13, 2013 Access Consciousness

Are relationships a puzzle you cannot solve?  Are you wondering if the puzzle box you picked up isn’t missing a few critical pieces? You may be more correct than you know. The puzzling way we look at relationships was just one of the many issues explored in Access Consciousness® Founder Gary Douglas and Dr. Dain [...]

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Are You Always Looking for the Best in Your Partner?

August 6, 2013 Access Consciousness

What Would It Take for It to Show Up? Do you believe people are innately good at heart, and that they always choose what’s best for them and others? Are you sure that someday, hopefully soon, your partner will step up to being everything you know they can be? Are you doing everything you can [...]

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